May 2008

 

 

“Bend over Baybee, here it comes”

 

 

Back in the day, 1981 to be exact, when I first started driving, I remember gas prices being around 1.35 a gallon. A drastic contrast to today’s cost. The only word to describe the astonishing high cost of fuel today is “Ridiculous.” Americans are being “screwed” and no one is even screaming out our names.

 

In 1981, Reagan was president and a “BUSH” was vice president. Things then were much like they are now regarding employment. During the Reagan/Bush “reign” most of the steel mills were packing up and moving overseas because of huge tax breaks being offered them by overseas countries, so many people were unemployed overnight.

 

I grew up in a small Pennsylvania town not far from Pittsburgh called “New Castle” and the steel mills were the lifeblood of our town, so you can only imagine what happened to my little town; it died. I think the obituary would look something like this:

 

“Here lies New Castle Pennsylvania, born in 1801 and died in 1981, cause of death has been determined to be a ”Reagan/Bush (Bushbot) assassination.”

 

As of January there were 7.6 million people unemployed in a labor force of 154 million, producing an official unemployment rate of 4.9 percent. This was a significant increase over the 4.5 percent unemployment rate in mid 2007, and thus one important sign of a weakening economy. Unemployment is likely to keep rising as the economic slowdown continues.

 

George W. Bush’s presidency appears headed for colossal historical disgrace. Many historians are now wondering whether Bush, in fact, will be remembered as the very worst president in all of American history.

 

Many of us in the United States do not like the way in which George W. Bush runs the American nation and attempts to run the world. Our numbers are growing. In each of the nine national polls taken, LESS THAN half the respondents are of the opinion that he is handling the presidency well.

 

More significant still, since he retains a reputation for personal charm which buttresses his standing in the polls, the latest poll reported that only one-third of Americans think the American nation, under Bush, is headed in the right direction. Two polls found that well under 40 per cent of Americans approve of the direction in which he is leading the country.

 

President Bush sounds like an idiot. The most recent example is his March statement that he still believes the Palestinians and Israelis can reach a peace agreement before the end of his term.

This comes on the heels of an Israeli attack against Gaza that killed more than 100 people, most of them innocent civilians. It was a reprisal attack for a few rockets fired into Israel by some Hamas hotheads. In World War II, when the Germans killed civilians as a reprisal for an attack on their forces, it was called a war crime.

Yet President Bush and the world’s most ineffective secretary of state, Condoleezza Rice, can barely force themselves to say, in effect, “Tut, tut, tut. Can’t you folks get along?”  Rodney King would be proud…

One view of history is that it is a record of political leaders making decisions. If they are smart and make good decisions, good things happen. If they are stupid and make bad decisions, then disasters can befall innocent people.

We have elected ourselves a president who is not very smart when it comes to foreign affairs and, even worse, seems to have no real interest in them. Instead of seeking wise counsel, he has surrounded himself with neoconservative ideologues who think the US can bully the rest of the world into doing what they want it to do.

I read an editorial in this mornings Canton Repository that the Iraq War is costing Americans 720 million per DAY and consistent with Bush’s “love” for the poor (not the U.S. poor either) he has asked Congress to “free up” 770 million in emergency food aid for “poor countries” (again, not the United States).

Forget about the $127 billion surplus that President Clinton left the nation after he moved out of the White House or the fact that Clinton paid down hundreds of billions of dollars in federal debt. President George W. Bush has produced nothing but deficits since he’s been in office. Last year’s, at $163 billion, was the lowest in five years.

But it probably would not have been if his trillion-dollar war in Iraq hadn’t been paid for “off budget.” That little budgetary trick by the administration means that cost isn’t tallied in the deficit and debt figures.

Recession, like menopause, is a retrospective diagnosis. You don’t know you’re in one until you’ve been in it for at least two quarters (referring to a recession) or a year (for menopause).

Oh and I must leave you with one last adorable analogy;

“Clinton screwed Monica Lewinsky, but the Bush administration is screwing America and apparently wants to screw the rest of the world, too.”

(I really wanted to use the F word.)

I hope you all have a wonderfully prosperous week!

 

~Cee~

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“Ms. Right”
 

It sometimes feels like a risk to be honest about our relationships.  As if there is an unspoken myth that all lesbian relationships are perfect and the same. If ours doesn’t measure up to the ideal model, there must be something wrong with us.

In truth, lesbian relationships can vary a great deal. How we construct our relationships is both a reflection of the wider heterosexual model, as well as a reflection of our own creativity to create relationships within a void. With few or no models to look to, we are often freer than heterosexuals to create relationships of our own choosing rather than ones based on social conditioning and expectations.

As a lesbian woman who has dated a lot, I know that the lesbians dating scene is unlike any other dating scene on earth. As women, we are emotional, picky, and always looking for someone to love who loves us as much as we love them. And when you have two women in a relationship, things can sometimes get a little, shall we say, messy.

Believe me when I tell you it was not an easy task finding “Ms. Right”;  in fact, she found me and when it happened, I certainly was not looking. 

It took years of dating a massive amount of all the wrong women, settling on blind dates, and trying to accommodate my own advice when it came to love and relationships.

I am and will always be a strong and independent woman. I believe in equality in a relationship. The equal sharing of household chores, bills, and all the nonsense that goes on behind the scenes. I think that couples should take major decisions as a team so that each party involved is quite satisfied with the result.

I believe in compromise. I believe that “Yes dear” works like a charm and saves us both from a lot of unnecessary turmoil. Arguing can be healthy if done correctly. It is almost an art. But you must have the opportunity to express your opinion and always keep an open mind to really hear what your partner has to say.

Ladies, being a lesbian is difficult enough as it is. Our pool of potential partners is not nearly as great as our hetro counterparts, but if you keep an open mind and keep your options open, you will have more success in the end.

When it comes to long term relationships, we should remember that it is not just about falling in love, it is about staying in love, and staying together for the long haul.

I was lucky to find my life partner and she is incredibly beautiful inside and out. We have been together for fourteen months now and she still takes my breath away when she walks into a room. I have never been so compatible with anyone as I am with her. I know now without a doubt that for the first time in my life I am in love.

I have never given myself completely to anyone, there was always that little piece of myself that I fiercely protected, but when she walked into my life the walls of self protection came down. I didn’t need them anymore, because now I was safe.

I remember once as a teenager asking my grandmother how I would know when I was “in love.” She simply smiled and said; “Believe me, you will know when it happens” and she was right.

Falling in love is unlike any other feeling you will have. It incites you, It invigorates you, it puts you in a state of mind where everything around you is a momentary passing.

You find yourself wanting and waiting to talk to her. Wanting to see her. Falling in love feels like an angel has swept you off your feet and carried you into heaven

Falling in love is a splendor incased in the heart.

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Human Nature
 
Long before you’re consciously aware of making a decision, your mind has already made it. If that’s the case, do people actually make decisions? Or is every choice even the choice to prepare for future choices an unthinking, mechanistic procedure over which an illusory self awareness is laid

 

 

 

Human Nature
 
Long before you’re consciously aware of making a decision, your mind has already made it. If that’s the case, do people actually make decisions? Or is every choice even the choice to prepare for future choices an unthinking, mechanistic procedure over which an illusory self awareness is laid

“Ms. Right”
 

It sometimes feels like a risk to be honest about our relationships.  As if there is an unspoken myth that all lesbian relationships are perfect and the same. If ours doesn’t measure up to the ideal model, there must be something wrong with us.

In truth, lesbian relationships can vary a great deal. How we construct our relationships is both a reflection of the wider heterosexual model, as well as a reflection of our own creativity to create relationships within a void. With few or no models to look to, we are often freer than heterosexuals to create relationships of our own choosing rather than ones based on social conditioning and expectations.

As a lesbian woman who has dated a lot, I know that the lesbians dating scene is unlike any other dating scene on earth. As women, we are emotional, picky, and always looking for someone to love who loves us as much as we love them. And when you have two women in a relationship, things can sometimes get a little, shall we say, messy.

Believe me when I tell you it was not an easy task finding “Ms. Right”;  in fact, she found me and when it happened, I certainly was not looking. 

It took years of dating a massive amount of all the wrong women, settling on blind dates, and trying to accommodate my own advice when it came to love and relationships.

I am and will always be a strong and independent woman. I believe in equality in a relationship. The equal sharing of household chores, bills, and all the nonsense that goes on behind the scenes. I think that couples should take major decisions as a team so that each party involved is quite satisfied with the result.

I believe in compromise. I believe that “Yes dear” works like a charm and saves us both from a lot of unnecessary turmoil. Arguing can be healthy if done correctly. It is almost an art. But you must have the opportunity to express your opinion and always keep an open mind to really hear what your partner has to say.

Ladies, being a lesbian is difficult enough as it is. Our pool of potential partners is not nearly as great as our hetro counterparts, but if you keep an open mind and keep your options open, you will have more success in the end.

When it comes to long term relationships, we should remember that it is not just about falling in love, it is about staying in love, and staying together for the long haul.

I was lucky to find my life partner and she is incredibly beautiful inside and out. We have been together for fourteen months now and she still takes my breath away when she walks into a room. I have never been so compatible with anyone as I am with her. I know now without a doubt that for the first time in my life I am in love.

I have never given myself completely to anyone, there was always that little piece of myself that I fiercely protected, but when she walked into my life the walls of self protection came down. I didn’t need them anymore, because now I was safe.

I remember once as a teenager asking my grandmother how I would know when I was “in love.” She simply smiled and said; “Believe me, you will know when it happens” and she was right.

Falling in love is unlike any other feeling you will have. It incites you, It invigorates you, it puts you in a state of mind where everything around you is a momentary passing.

You find yourself wanting and waiting to talk to her. Wanting to see her. Falling in love feels like an angel has swept you off your feet and carried you into heaven

Falling in love is a splendor incased in the heart.

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Human Nature
 
Long before you’re consciously aware of making a decision, your mind has already made it. If that’s the case, do people actually make decisions? Or is every choice even the choice to prepare for future choices an unthinking, mechanistic procedure over which an illusory self awareness is laid

 

 

 

Human Nature
 
Long before you’re consciously aware of making a decision, your mind has already made it. If that’s the case, do people actually make decisions? Or is every choice even the choice to prepare for future choices an unthinking, mechanistic procedure over which an illusory self awareness is laid

Each day we make choices; The choice to work, the choice to play, the choice to be alone, the choice to be with a friend, the choice to be in a relationship, the choice to exercise, the choice to watch TV, the choice to commit a crime, the choice to stand out and be a good role model to those around us and so on. 
 
Each choice, whether right or wrong makes a lasting impression on our lives. Sometimes we make the right choices, choices that are clearly in our best interest.  Other times we make the wrong choices and those choices have a negative impact on our lives and sometimes to those around us.
 
These choices are called “free will” and free will and human nature go hand in hand. I learned a long time ago that we as humans are individual works of art and we will do what we want, when we want despite the consequences.
 
We are all animals being controlled by a conscience in one form or another. Its hard to have any proof for what is actually controlling us, if its some form of a soul or divine presence or just a series of memos that have dominance in our minds taking over some of our functions to insure that we are able to survive for as long as possible.
 
Research may provide a partial answer to how we behave, just as evolutionary sociobiology, but do these two concepts complete the picture of human behavior?
 
There some parts of us that just don’t go away. Tribe arguments were settled with battles using clubs and teeth. Tribes became countries, clubs and teeth became nuclear warheads. If you ask me, we can overcome the violent part of our minds just as we overcame our “uncivilized” nature over the past million or so years. The whole war aspect seems to be the the uncivilized part of us, but one might argue that it’s necessary for civilization.
 
Free will allows us to do basically whatever we want. Humans don’t have instincts anymore. We have the ability to choose to do what we want. Maybe the ability to use free will could be defined as human nature. Humans are able to decide all kinds of things, from the food they eat to the profession they choose to enter. Humans can experiment, we all possess the ability to be “logical” but most times we act “illogically.”
 
Animals think, but humans think in a totally different way. You can’t compare human’s society to the rest of the animal kingdoms instinctual behaviors and their nature. We may have had that at one time depending on your beliefs regarding evolution, but in any case modern humans don’t have a “nature” today.
 
We are lazy creature’s of habit and yet we are only here because our ancestors dared to take risks. Thanks to them we inherit the ingredients for becoming the true Masters of our own Destiny. “Stand up for what is right, even if you are standing alone.”
 
 
I hope you all have a wonderfully prosperous week!

 

 

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Hatred

 

 

In today’s society, there is a new form of hate that is beginning to brew. This hatred has been present in some form or another for hundreds upon hundreds of years. Throughout the world, people are drawn toward a specific group with whom they can relate.

 

Every year, hundreds of innocent people are killed in the U.S. just because their sexual orientation is different from what is considered to be the “norm.” The problem of hate crimes being committed against homosexuals isn’t just focused here in the United States either.

 

Depending on the time and the country, homosexuals have been whipped, hung, imprisoned, banned, lobotomized, ostracized, burned at the stake and ignored to the point where they are virtually exempt.

 

Religious groups say homosexuals are sinning against nature, i.e., against God, and at times of increased religious craze, were even put to death. As more conflicts came up on what were the “Laws of God,” the laws of the government took over.

 

Homosexuality was condemned as both socially deviant and against nature.  It was also discouraged, it not eradicated and social scientists have done studies and found strong evidence that homosexuality is less common than heterosexuals.

 

This same type of hatred was seen back before the turn of the century when the African American community began to gain more and more rights. Back then, people hated the African American community for one reason and one reason only, the color of their skin. If a person was black, that person was automatically put down to a lower standard.

 

The same is true in today’s world. If a person is a homosexual in society today, then they are automatically put down to a lower standard. If society is ever going to advance toward becoming a safer and more accepting place to live, then all people must learn to never judge someone based upon their race, religion, or sexual orientation.

 

There is absolutely no excuse as to why people cannot accept a group of people who are labeled as being different.

 

Rodney King once stated, “Why cant we all just get along?” When pondering this question, people can see that society can only gain more by heeding it rather than continuing to hate. If someone is against Homosexuals, then that person has a problem with people who are considered different.

Society will never be safe place to live so long as people continue to display hatred toward another group of people.

 

“Hatred is an emotion. It is a feeling we experience. Hatred is the emotional opposite of love. When we experience love, we feel a connection to another person. When we experience hatred, we feel repulsion from another person. Love is a bond, whereas hatred is a barricade. Hatred is an emotional endpoint. Hatred never comes first; it is always a secondary sensation, necessarily preceded by a primal emotion, fear.”

 

Fear is an instinct; Fear can also be hatred; Fear and hatred are simply emotions often times brought on by lack of knowledge. We cannot choose not to feel fear when we perceive a threat. But we can teach ourselves to assess the substance of our fears and the legitimacy of the perceptions driving those fears. In that moment of self-reflection, we realize our power to choose either to hate or not to hate. Hatred is a choice we can make to manage our fear.

 

It is one choice. Knowledge is our other option.

 

I hope you all have a wonderfully prosperous week!

 

~Cee~

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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